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My traveling experience in Australia

I love Traveling, especially travel to somewhere that I never been to, I was plan travel to Australia with one of my girl friend, We went to singapore together and we are agree travel to australia together too,unfortunately finally she cancelled her trip to Australia at the last few mins before we book the air ticket, I was very despond that she cancelled it, but however I have to accept it and respect her choice, this is life we have to handle things by ourselves

This is my first time travel alone by myself and flight more then 10 hours to another country,I was very excited also a bit worried what will be happen tomorrow,some people suggest me to cancel my trip, travel alone is not fun and bored, also it is near chinese new year,all airticket are not available and so difficult to get the airticket and it is very expensive too, but I hate it, I dont like to follow of what other people  doing  then I should to do the same things like them, I will do what I like to do,nobody is under control, So I packed my baggage and get on the airplane fly to Sydney

It is 11:30am in the morning when I arrived in Sydney,I dont have many stuff, just one baggage, a security man was stop me after I past the custom

” Hello, Miss, we need to check your baggage, Please follow of me”he says to me with a nice smile

“Sure, no problem” I says to him with the same smile and follow of him

We went to a custom baggage check place, he keep talking to me about china stuff…what is your job, are you here for holiday, are you travel alone….Chinese food, like peke duck….etc, we talking like a good friend, he says to me after he check everything” you speak very good english, have a nice trip in Australia, enjoy it!”

I was a bit despond when I get into the city of Sydney, it wasnt that nice as I expected, just the same like in shenzhen and Hongkong, maybe shanghai or  hongkong even better then sydney, however the weather was a bit cold when I arrive the first day, So I just went to the hotel and took a good rest

I start to get a map of sydney and planning my travel schedule in the second day when I arrive in Australia, I find the most popular place and find the way how to get there, I realized  people who lives in Sydney are very friendly, they will show you where exact you should go if you dont know how to get to somewhere, for example: I find the most popular beach in sydney and it is call”bondi beach” but I dont have a car in sydney also no idea how to get there, so I was asked some people from the street, they show me where should i get on the bus and which bus station i should get off, an old women says to me with a very nice smile” you need get a ticket before you ride the bus, go over there to get your ticket first” I appreciated it very much after she told me, I bought a return ticket for the bus to bondi beach

I start to like sydney after I went to bondi beach, it is amazing place, I couldnt believe it is so beautiful and I have never see a beach like that in my life before, I couldnt feel my skin got Sunburn from the beach, it wasnt hot but the sun is very strong

My next Location is manly beach, this is another nice beach in sydney, one of my friend suggest me go there, so I went to the ferry and bought return ticket, talked to a nice old couple when i was wait for the ferry, they looks very friendly and nice, we were talked about china, job and sydney, it was so much fun when I talked to them, feel like I m home speak to my parents  we says”goodbye” to each other when the ferry is arrive, I met a new australia girl when I got on the ferry, she told me that she went on an interview today, no wonder she dress so professional, I like the way when people dress up very professional at work, I thought this is the difference between china and oversea, In China most people just wear nomral clothing when they go to work, but in honkong or sydney, everyone wear office clothing go to work,she took me to her house to change her clothing then we went to the beach together and had a great time together, she is so kindly to me, show me around and send me back to the ferry,I m glad to made one more friend like her 

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Income Statement Classification of Royalty Expense

Businesses create income statements for each accounting cycle, typically on a yearly basis. Each income and expense account must be reported on the income statement so investors and managers can evaluate the financial health of a company. Since royalties are typically paid in proportion to sales, they can be a large expense for any company.

What Are Royalties?

  • Royalties are payments made to individuals who have created and sold a product or service with the help of a company. Musicians, actors and writers are some of the individuals who may receive royalty payments. Royalties are a form of compensation, either for an employee who is paid a salary or for independent contractors who receive a Form 1099 at the end of the calendar year.

  • How Are They Classified?

    • Since royalties fall under the overall heading of “Compensation” they can be written off as an expense for each tax period. Royalty payment rates are outlined in a contract between the company and the individual being paid, and are therefore determined based on sales figures for the applicable product. Necessary expenses, including any form of compensation, decrease a company’s net income. Royalty payments are classified as current expenses on the income statement.

    • Recording Royalties

      • Whenever an individual is paid, the accounting department makes a journal entry to the general ledger under each affected account. Each time a royalty payment is sent, the accounting department debits the “Royalties Expense” account and applies a credit to the cash account. The “Royalties Expense” account balance increases, increasing that period’s royalties expense, and the cash account balance decreases due to the payment of funds. During the end-of-year closing process, the “Royalties Expense” account is closed and reduced to zero, and the balance is added to the “Expenses” section of the income statement.

      • Reporting Royalties

      • When a company reports royalty expense for a financial period, the result is a decrease in net income and thus a decrease in income tax liability. The tax liability gets transferred to the individual who earned the payment and received the Form 1099. The individual is then responsible for reporting the correct amount of royalty payments received for the year, as well as all personal business expenses related to the royalty income.

Posted in Finance,Investment 

got my visa to Australia 🙂

Today is a good day and a bad day, the good day is finally I got my visa to Australia, I m very happy about that, I was too rush to submitted these document when I was applied the visa to Australia,cause I was just came back in china from singapore and too busy with work stuff at that day, have no time to deal with my visa,I have to submitted My passport, ID card, work prove, bank statement, Introducing letter from our company, credit card bank statement…..etc, I real dont like to deal with these stuff, kind annoying, then after few days got a calling from the embassy of Australia, that girl was quite nice and sounds very friendly, seem like we are friend when we speak over the phone, but I still was a bit nervous when she calling me, however, I m just being honest answer all the question what she was asked for

I always in believe that I could get the visa for 100% sure, cause I have traveling out of china for few countries before and all of them has a good record, also I have a good job too,I do like traveling a lots, but China still my home  no matter how nice of other country, I still like to stay here- Our home CHINA  unless my future hubby is from another country and we have no choose need to move, well of coz I will follow of him ,cause he is the only man i want and love in this world,lol

The bad news is I was real pressure at work today, even dont know how to answer the question, my head was blank, feel I could never finish my work, have a lots stuff need to do, the finance report keep change almost every week and still not perfect, kind confused me and make me so tired, my right eyes keep jump today, not sure why, too much numbers for me everyday,I m tried my best to manage our finance from HongKong office, I have been work as an accountant over 6 years now, this is my second job that I feel too busy and too pressure, maybe it is related the business, I realized it is much harder and difficult if the company does some business related a lot numbers, for example” Supermarket”cause so many products, especially cost accounting, haha that is my first job worked for Wai Yuen Tong Medicine Co., Ltd. this is a very old company basic in Hongkong over 100 years and our shenzhen office has over 300 employees, Hongkong has over 600 employees then other country too, I was the costing accounting there, so many number for me too :-(

after that then I keep worked in software industry company and I real like it, no pressure at work and so much easier to deal accounting job, still remember the CFO from my last company, he keep telling something good about me, I like the way when your boss always says something good about you at work and encourage you, it make us work more harder and will be pleasure to work overtime too,however just wish I could done of my job asap then I can get a REAL relax during my time in australia, I need a holiday and out of the office

Posted in Travel, life 

My next trip to Australia

Have back in China from Singapore more then one week now, still have no time to update my blog, I know a lots of people are waiting for my update from singapore, I m just too busy with work stuff and spend some time with my family on the weekend, especially at the end of year, all people like me who does accountant or finance job are SUPER busy at work, I real realized that I work so hard for my current job, over time work is not seldomness for me anymore and I m just used to work like that way, I have been studyed for CMA since last Sep, but havent study it for a while again, I think it will be my first goal in new year of 2011, I m always in believe” no matter how rich of your future hubby or your current family, a women must be independence by theirself” this is the best way to protect yourself, so women must have a good job and work hard, learn more knowledge, if you work hard, at least it can be insure that you have house to live, have money to traveling, shopping and buy some present for someone who you like.

However, My trip to singapore was real awesome and I love it there, everywhere are so green and clean, I like natural stuff, plant, flower, tree, grass…etc , all are my favorite, I have imagine that I have a house with a very nice garden, flower, tree, grass and plant will be around in my house and absolutely I will look after all of them, I have met a lots nice people over there in singapore too, they are real nice and friendly, I feel life are more wonderful and colorful for me now  I m enjoy it and Happy!  

I will traveling to Australia with my girl friend anna during chinese new year, I m looking forward it and can not wait, we work hard and enjoy life, this is what we all should to do in our life, also I m looking forward to Europe this year too

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My current life……

I feel a bit stress out recently, went to see my mom last weekend and had a great time with them together, northing much to do but feel happy and sweet when you are with your family, also had too much work to do for my current job, I m not sure why I m such so busy everday, no time to eat lunch,always left the office around 7 o’clock, I m jealous that other coworker can leave the office on time, but I can not, I have to report to my boss everyday after I got all report from hongkong, our operating system was breakdown, so it is very difficult to get correct info on time from hongkong also people who I m work with are not patient to communicate with me, Like everytime when i asking for something then they are not patient or always respond to me too late , it is end of the year now, a lots things need to catch up, I might need to overtime work everyday recently, need to complete everything before New Year.

got a bit stress from my mom last weekend,My mom just like all chinese parents, they like to ask you question when you go to see them and they are very interest in your relationship or boyfriend…etc, here is the conversation between me and My mom from last weekend:

Mom: do you have a boyfriend now?

Me: Nope…

Mom: anyone interesting now?

Me: dont know yet, we will see, I dont have much interest in a relationship or for a man now,but I know there are few nice guys was nice to me and I m glad we are all good friends

Mom: why no interest in a relationship?whats happen?

Me: northing happen, maybe just beacuse of the right person not show up! or maybe he is come already but I didnt realize…

Mom: do you know you are 27 years old now,a women after 30 years old then not as easier as right now to pick up a good man

Me: I know mom, but I just can not feel the right person is around me, if the right person is not come how could I rush to have a boyfriend then get married?

Mom: tell me what is the right person?

Me: we are happy together, we love to each other, understanding to each other, caring of each other,help to each other, respect to each other,we will miss each other if we are apart, at least I need to always think of him and feel he is the only man I want

Mom: My dear daughter, there is no perfect man in our life, everyone has their weakness and strongpoint,we have to learn how to appreciate people’s strongpoint and forgive people’s weakness

Me: sure you are correct,but I just can not find someone who I real want be with in my whole life, I think the right person still not come, maybe I need take more time to see and find out where him is 

Mom:good lucky, sweet

Me: Thanks mom,  I m sorry I just can not rush things in my life, especially the most important thing of married, I dont want to get divorce in my future, do you prefer to see me rush to get married with the wrong person then divorce after 3 years with a baby or rather to see me still being single until 3 years later?

Mom: no one ask you to divorce

Me: Sure I believe all couples never think about divorce when they are get marry, but as long as you are marry to someone,especially marry to the wrong person or marry to someone who you are not real love,your life wont be happiness and you can not stay happy in your life,if the married life can not be more happy then your single life then why shall we get married?

Mom: ok then you can being single forever no need married,being lonely for all of your rest life

Me: I m not say I will be single forever, I will marry when I meet the right person, but it take some time to find it, I dont want rush it into a relationship or to get married with someone, if you are not sure to be with someone then its better keep in a friendship, this way might keep the friendship relationship more longer

Mom: Okey, it is your life, we can not interfering your personal life, but I wish you can find a good man in your future life

Me: sure I will keep my eyes open :-)

Posted in Family,Friends,Love 

My trip to Singapore

I know it will going to be great and nice to visit singapore during New Year, I m excited and can not wait to see the whole country, I have booked the airticket last weekend, wow couldnt believe some airline charge HKD6990, too expensive, well I booked the cheap one, but still not so cheap, it is around HKD2,500.00, couldnt find anyone even more cheaper then this, glad my coworker, also a good friend of mine will join my trip to singapore, she is a very nice girl and pretty, I like her mind also think she real know how to comfort people and make them feel better, I wish I could travel around all of this world if I have enough time and money to support even it is a business trip still be fun! cause I want to open my eyes to worldwide not just in China, I want to see the whole world, Life is short to looks back, enjoy every single day when you are alives in this world, no matter how rich or how poor you are, your mind is matter to your future life and I m in believe a person who know more knowledge and see more in this world, their mind will become more worldwide, I have been think too much recently, whats happen to me before and what should I do in the future and what should I done for current……….etc, I know I m a hard work girl, I work hard not only beacuse of make more money, it cause of how you enjoy your work and how you conside to be fun in your life, anyway I will keep update when I come back china from Singapore, wish I have a wonderful and amazing trip to Singapore :-) oh yeah!

Posted in Travel, life 

Generally Accepted Accounting Principles (United States)

In the U.S., generally accepted accounting principles, commonly abbreviated as US GAAP or simply GAAP, are accounting rules used to prepare, present, and report financial statements for a wide variety of entities, including publicly-traded and privately-held companies, non-profit organizations, and governments. Generally GAAP includes local applicable Accounting Framework, related accounting law, rules and Accounting Standard.

Similar to many other countries practicing under the common lawsystem, the United States government does not directly set accounting standards, in the belief that the private sector has better knowledge and resources. US GAAP is not written in law, although the U.S. Securities and Exchange Commission(SEC) requires that it be followed in financial reporting by publicly-traded companies. Currently, the Financial Accounting Standards Board(FASB) is the highest authority in establishing generally accepted accounting principles for public and private companies, as well as non-profit entities. For local and state governments, GAAP is determined by the Governmental Accounting Standards Board(GASB), which operates under a set of assumptions, principles, and constraints, different from those of standard private-sector GAAP. Financial reporting in federal government entities is regulated by the Federal Accounting Standards Advisory Board(FASAB).

The US GAAP provisions differ somewhat from International Financial Reporting Standards(IFRS), though former SEC Chairman Chris Cox set out a timetable for all U.S. companies to drop GAAP by 2016, with the largest companies switching to IFRS as early as 2009


  • 1 History
  • 2 Basic objectives
  • 3 Basic concepts
    • 3.1 Assumptions
    • 3.2 Principles
    • 3.3 Constraints
  • 4 Required Departures from GAAP
  • 5 Setting GAAP
  • 6 Precedence of GAAP-setting authorities
  • 7 Codification in Accounting – FASB Accounting Standards CodificationTM
  • 8 Other accounting standard authorities
    • 8.1 House of GAAP
  • 9 See also
  • 10 Notes
  • 11 External links
Posted in Finance,Investment, education 

there are many crossroads in our life,make a right decision is very important in your future life!

“there are many crossroads in our life,make a right decision is very important in your future life! ”

I realize this is not only for our personal life, it also related to Business, work and others

Since I had this kind of experience before and I m in believe to make a right decision is very important in our life,no matter what it is

but hey again, sometimes we made a wrong decision, who know what will be happen tomorrow,so open your eyes, look for your deam and live it, stop it immediately once you know the decision is wrong….

Life is like a road. There are long and short roads; smooth and rocky roads; crooked and straight paths. In our life many roads would come our way as we journey through life. There are roads that lead to a life of single blessedness, marriage, and religious vocation. There are also roads that lead to fame and fortune on one hand, or isolation and poverty on the other. There are roads to happiness as there are roads to sadness, roads towards victory and jubilation, and roads leading to defeat and disappointment.

Just like any road, there are corners, detours, and crossroads in life. Perhaps the most perplexing road that you would encounter is a crossroad. With four roads to choose from and with limited knowledge on where they would go, which road will you take? What is the guarantee that we would choose the right one along the way? Would you take any road, or just stay where you are: in front of a crossroad?

There are no guarantees.

You do not really know where a road will lead you until you take it. There are no guarantees. This is one of the most important things you need to realize about life. Nobody said that choosing to do the right thing all the time would always lead you to happiness. Loving someone with all your heart does not guarantee that it would be returned. Gaining fame and fortune does not guarantee happiness. Accepting a good word from an influential superior to cut your trip short up the career ladder is not always bad, especially if you are highly qualified and competent. There are too many possible outcomes, which your really cannot control. The only thing you have power over is the decisions that you will make, and how you would act and react to different situations.

Wrong decisions are always at hindsight.

Had you known that you were making a wrong decision, would you have gone along with it? Perhaps not, why would you choose a certain path when you know it would get you lost? Why make a certain decision if you knew from the very beginning that it is not the right one. It is only after you have made a decision and reflected on it that you realize its soundness. If the consequences or outcomes are good for you, then you have decided correctly. Otherwise, your decision was wrong.

Take the risk: decide.

Since life offers no guarantee and you would never know that your decision would be wrong until you have made it, then you might as well take the risk and decide. It is definitely better than keeping yourself in limbo. Although it is true that one wrong turn could get you lost, it could also be that such a turn could be an opportunity for an adventure, moreover open more roads. It is all a matter of perspective. You have the choice between being a lost traveller or an accidental tourist of life. But take caution that you do not make decisions haphazardly. Taking risks is not about being careless and stupid. Here are some pointers that could help you choose the best option in the face of life’s crossroads:

1. Get as many information as you can about your situation.

You cannot find the confidence to decide when you know so little about what you are faced with. Just like any news reporter, ask the 5 W’s: what, who, when, where, and why. What is the situation? Who are the people involved? When did this happen? Where is this leading? Why are you in this situation? These are just some of the possible questions to ask to know more about your situation. This is important. Oftentimes, the reason for indecision is the lack of information about a situation.

2. Identify and create options.

What options do the situation give you? Sometimes the options are few, but sometimes they are numerous. But what do you do when you think that the situation offers no options? This is the time that you create your own. Make your creative mind work. From the most simplistic to the most complicated, entertain all ideas. Do not shoot anything down when an idea comes to your head. Sometimes the most outrageous idea could prove to be the right one in the end. You can ask a friend to help you identify options and even make more options if you encounter some difficulty, but make sure that you make the decision yourself in the end.

3. Weigh the pros and cons of every option.

Assess each option by looking at the advantages and disadvantages it offers you. In this way, you get more insights about the consequences of such an option.

4. Trust yourself and make that decision.

Now that you have assessed your options, it is now time to trust yourself. Remember that there are no guarantees and wrong decisions are always at hindsight. So choose… decide… believe that you are choosing the best option at this point in time.

Now that you have made a decision, be ready to face its consequences: good and bad. It may take you to a place of promise or to a land of problems. But the important thing is that you have chosen to live your life instead of remaining a bystander or a passive audience to your own life. Whether it is the right decision or not, only time can tell. But do not regret it whatever the outcome. Instead, learn from it and remember that you always have the chance to make better decisions in the future

Posted in Travel, life

American medicine is much better then Chinese

Sean Markus and Chris prior are both of my coworker and from the United States, We went to play pool last night, it was so much fun during our pool time and the way when we are back to Coco park

normally i only play 2 person pool before never play pool with 3 peoples together, especially american pool, Chris was explained the rules to me,wow I couldnt believe I m so easy to understand how is work and follow of the rules even I have never touch it before, it only take me 1 min to understand the whole rules, I m smart, haha 

It was real fun during our pool time, we joke around and people play nice music in the pool place too, the first time was chris won, I won the second time and Sean won once too, glad I still can won even I havent play it for long time, maybe about 1 year?

the part of fun time is everytime when chris or sean try to hit my ball, i will be sweet says to them” hey, are you a gentleman? if you are then dont hit my ball and get me out” haha but chris was so mean, he just hit any ball what is good for him, haha i m kidding! everyone are the same just shot any ball which can make them win the game, no matter how sweet I says to them, chris still try to shot my ball if there a good opportunity :-(, but sean was nice to me once, haha cause i said” Hey,sean you should try to hit chris ball, if you hit my ball again i wont talk to you anymore and you are not a friend of mine”haha we all know we are just joke around and have fun together, but sean stop hit my ball once and try to get chris out, made chris mad 

The other part made chris get mad was I kick him out, haha  well it wasnt real mad, we are just joke around and enjoy our pool time, peoples just say it that they are mad, I was tried to shot sean’s ball first but sean told me that i should shot chris’s ball, cause that is his last ball left on the table and chris was so mean to me in the last game, I was asking him many times” are you a gentleman?”and I tried to be sweet make him dont kick me out, but he keep said”no i m not a gentleman” he just shot any ball whatever is good for him, So I change my mind shot Chris’s ball in, he is out, haha!

We had dinner around 10:30pm in Coco park after pool, sean was so nice and bring his medicine for me when he saw i have a cough, I m not sure why i always had this kind of problem in the past 1 year, easy to get sick or catch a cold, I had a cough about 3 days now and I had taken some chinese medicine,one bottle cough medicine but it doesnt help me and even got worse! I just drink a little bit cough medicine that sean gave to me and I feeling much better when I woke up this morning, I was so surprise that my cough is gone  I couldnt believe, American medicine is so gooooooooooooood!

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a better life,being a civilized people,starting from us!

I was taken the subway go to work this morning, the first station was in shenda subway station, I know I dont like bus, I real think to buy a car next year or whatever, but the traffic is terrible in shenzhen, so many cars and so many people here and people are not good to follow of traffic rules when they are drive, so it make things more difficult and hard! sometimes i prefer to taken subway then drive to work, subway is more  convenient,no traffic problem and very fast, if i drive to work i might spend more time on the way to work and i need to find a place to park the car either…..

when I walking into the subway station this morning, I can telling people are more civilized in shenzhen now, everyone was waiting on the line in the entry of the train, no one just crash to the head of entry, sometimes i can see it in hongkong, god! hongkong even has more people then shenzhen, the subway always full of people and no one was wait on the line, but everyone was stay on the line when they are waiting for the bus, just wonder why not in the subway station? maybe too many people 

I was stayed up in front of the entry from the train, so I have a seat sit down when i get in, as normally I like to listen music on my way to work,it make the time gone fast,at this moment I saw a lady who was carry a 2 years old kids walk into the subway but no seat anymore and some people have to stay up already, actually I didnt see her when she first walk in, cause i was pay attention listen to the music, she is a bit far away from me,I looks around about 3 sec, it seems no one is try to give their seat out, so i says to her with a smile” I have a seat for you, Please come over!” then she was very happy and says “thanks”to me. I was stay up about 30 mins on the train, it still a bit far away from my home to work, the lady was asking me to take her seat when she get out of the subway, but I m ready to get out of train either, it make me happy and smile,if you are nice to others then other will be nice with you ever better, but sometimes it wont happen to us in our life, I remember i have gave my seat out to people many times, some people even didnt say”thank you” to me, they just take it and treat it like northing or it is your responsibility to give it to them, a bit disappoint :-(

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What is Life?

        Life is a gift—accept it.

  Life is a struggle—face it.

  Life is a song—sing it.

  Life is an adventure—dare it.

  Life is beauty—praise it.

  Life is a mystery—unfold it.

  Life is a game—play it.

  Life is a puzzle—solve it.

  Life is an opportunity—take it.

  Life is a goal—achieve it.

  Life is a mission—fulfill it.

  Life is it—live it.

The differences between ShangHai,Shenzhen and HongKong


As everyone knew shenzhen has more then 8.76 million peoples until 2008 and grew up very faster in the past 30 years, The leader of Shenzhen was DengXiaoPing

The Location of Shenzhen is between Hongkong and Guangzhou, also 1 hour drive from Huizhou and DongGuang, it is very convenience go everywhere, you can take the train or airport bus going to HongKong airport and fly to everywhere in this world

I’ve been visited Shenzhen since 1997 years and start to live here since 2004 years, so I know Shenzhen quite well, Most peoples live here in Shenzhen are from other city of China or other countries, it is kind mixed like in New York City, so here doesn’t have real Shenzhen local people and no citizen discrimination, everyone spoken Mandarin, I heard that most Guangzhou citizen doesn’t like people from other city, they will ignore you if you don’t speak Cantonese, I’m not sure if people are telling me the truth or it is a misunderstanding, I spoken Cantonese most the time when I went to Guangzhou before, so people don’t know where I come from 🙂 I have a numbers of friends are Shenzhen local people, they are originally from this city and grew up here too, I like the weather quite a lot in Shenzhen, not too hot and not too cold in the winter, maybe this is a part of the reason I choose to stayed in Shenzhen

Since 2009 years, HongKong start opening to Mainland that all Shenzhen citizen can visit hk anytime, which is mean you can get a mulriple visa to hk, this is very helpful and convenience for Mainland peoples visit HongKong, sometimes I m just wonder why HongKong need a visa for Mainland? As everyone knew Hongkong came back in China since 1997, it has been more then 10 years now and we still need a visa go to Hongkong? Well this is long history of China, we can not discuss it here


I have been visited Shanghai almost every year, I love the area in Pudong District, especially the bund of Shanghai, you will find so much different between Shanghai and Shenzhen, Shanghai has new area and very old area, I have visited the old area in QiBao old street during the Chinese national day of 2010,it was quite interest and could imagine the history of shanghai, you can see some similarity between Shanghai and Hongkong, for example: The bund, also those amazing building….but Shanghai is much biger then HongKong, Shanghai are more technology than Shenzhen and much more International, also more foreigner doing business in Shanghai, there has different area for different countries, it seem like every countries has a temporary home in shanghai :-)

I have many family are originally from shanghai, they are very nice and kindly to peoples, but I heard a lot of peoples thought Shanghai girls only care about money, I don’t have many friends from shanghai, especially shanghai girls, so I don’t know what they think or what is in their mind, but I think it is normal if shanghai girls care about money, who doesn’t ? I believe everyone does, the point is how much do you care of it and what do you put on the top in your life? Love first, Money second? Or Money first, Love second? Asking yourself which one is more important for you then you will know the answer

I have asking my aunt about the above question, cause she is originally shanghaiess and from Puxi district my uncle is an official of the China national ocean bureau and from Pudong district, maybe 20 years ago pudong district kind like a countryside area, my aunt’s family was thought pudong district is poor, not as good as in Puxi district, so they was argued against when my uncle and aunt got married, also my uncle doesn’t have too much money at that moment too, my aunt told to her parents” I m marry to him not his money or his place or anything else” “it is depend on what do you need in life and what do you consider to being in your life, sure shanghai is a big and expensive city, money mean many things in a big city, my classmater always drove a very nice and expensive car when we met, but I never get jealous of her, cause I like my life and I got my happiness, so this is enough for me, rich women doesn’t mean they are happy or they get their happiness” my aunt said


I have been worked in HongKong many times before, most time stayed there about one week or more and I will heading to HongKong again next week.

I like the way in the morning in HongKong, everyone dress up very professional and walk very fast in the office area, you can see a lot of business suit man there  it make me very excited when I was walked with those business suit man in that area and feeling special like in the dream or a movie show  it is kind like in NYC from the Movie,I have never been to NYC but I believe I will like it, cause I like the way how people get things done and how they dress up…etc, especially the area where do I work—Centre, I live 5 mins away from Tsim Sha Tsui MTR then 2 subway station to centre, it is quite convenience and nice area to live, also the policy in HongKong are more similarity to western, for example: if you are sick and need to see a doctor, you must get an oppointment before you going to the hospital, not like here in Mainland that you can see the doctor anytime, sometimes you might need to wait about 30 mins, but however you don’t need to get an oppointment before you go to the hospital. The Hongkong citizen can traveling to 75 countries without visa also have a lot of beneficial for hongkong citizen, but Mainland doesn’t have it and most countries that we want to traveling need a visa 🙁 not sure why? also Google has moved to HongKong from Mainland, the website has been changed to www.google.com.hk, feel bad such a big company moved out of china, could imagine how many chinese peoples lost their job from Google company  , I wont say anything bad or good about china or Hongkong or anywhere else, as i always believe everywhere has something good and bad, same as a person, no one is perfect in this world, we all learn hard and improve yourself everyday,but to being honest i real dont like that the chinese government blocked so many internet, especially FACEBOOK 

I heard the same things about Hongkong that most hk girls only care about money? I don’t know them very well also, but I had some experience from some hk girls before, some of my guy friends are hongkongness and they said how bad hk girl is, all they care is famous brand handbag, shoes or clothes….etc,  as everyone know hongkong is a fashion and shopping city, small but colorful and all is about famous brand… you can buy everything from hongkong, house pricing are expensive, that’s why most hk family share a small apartment, my first time visit hongkong was in 2005 and I stayed in my ex boss’s house, she is a very nice women and treat me like her daughter, she told me” 70% hongkong peoples live in a small apartment, not like in Mainland, but the rental are double expensive then Mainland even more”

The worst thing that I know hongkong girl was from 2007 when I worked for SAP Company, I need to communicated with a hk girl everyday, we are worked in the same team, she look like my boss when she talked to me, actually she is not, she will yell to people even it is her fault, also she like to show how special she is and she thought all Mainland peoples are worse than Hongkong peoples, which is mean no one speak good English here in Mainland and no one looks good here in Mainland, sometimes I just laugh and speak to myself” why don’t you just look at yourself from the mirror then you will know how pretty you are  

The other experience of Hongkong girl was heard from my girl friend, current she was married to a handsome and nice hongkong guy 🙂 I m not sure how they get to know each other, but I know they hangout quite a lots before they get together, her hubby’s ex gf is a hongkongness and she post many comment on internet says something bad about Mainland girls like to steal other’s bf……etc, I still remember I have saw her comment from my friend’s msn space before

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Love letter

You’re the man in my dream.

I’m thinking of you every second.

It is universally acknowledged that you are indispensible to me.

Loving you is closely to my life.

I have searched a thousand years. And I have cried a thousand tears. I found everything I need. You are everything to me.

For years I had been searching for that perfect fantasy. But I find it in my arms right now. You are all to me.

When I met you I knew I would forever be by your side — forever your partner and forever your love.

I asked God for a rose & he gave me a garden. I ask God for a drop of water & he gave me an ocean. I asked God for an angel & he gave me you! One day you ask me: what’s more important to you, me or your life? I’ll say my life and you’ll go and leave without even knowing that you are my life. My eyes are hurting because I can’t see you. My arms are empty because I can’t hold you. My lips are cold because I can’t kiss you. My heart is breaking because I’m not with you.

Honey, how do I live without you? I miss you every minute and every second.
Within you I lose myself, without you I find myself wanting to be lost again.


You are the one I have been looking for.

I can think of nothing else but your dazzling smile.

I will always keep a warm place in my heart for you.

My heart beats for you every day. I am inspired by you every minute, and I worry about you every second. It is wonderful to have you in my life.

Every beat of my heart, loudly cries your name, I want so much to be with you, oh, please, please, feel the same.

I am looking for a word. I am looking for a whole new word. I am looking for a word. I am looking for a word that nobody knows. I am looking for a word. I am looking for a word that says…that you are the best!

If you are the wind, I am the sand.
If you are the shoe, I am the brush.
If you don’t love me, I just wanna die.


Your eyes close, I die; your eyes open, I come back alive. Your eyes close and open again and again, I die and come back time after time.

I will not beat you, not scold you, but torture you with all my love.

Grow old along with me, the best is yet to be.

I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am with you.

Thank me for loving you no way anyone has ever tried.

My dearest, can I call you like this? If you agree, don’t phone me; if not, please send me this message “I miss you so much.”

My family name is “I”, first name is “love you”, and surname is “miss you”; my cognomen is “understand you”, appellation is “feel badly about you”, epithet is “think of you” , book name is “dream of you”, nickname is “chase you”. You can call me I kiss you.

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How to tell if he is real Mr.Right?

Think your Mr. Next has the potential to be Mr. Right? Before you leap without looking, take an honest inventory. See how many of the following five essential traits he possesses.

Dating Trait #1: He listens to you

The best way to know if Mr. Next is interested in (and worthyof) being a candidate for Mr. Right? He listens to you. You’ll know he’s listening when he shows genuine concern, consistently remembers things you’ve told him (your birthday, favorite food, best friend’s name, etc.), and offers emotional support in honest and thoughtful ways.

Dating Trait #2: He connects with you easily

We’ve all been in those relationships that take W-O-R-K (and suck the life force out of us in the process). When a relationship works on its own, it feels effortless, easy, and fluid. You don’t have to force anything, forgive anyone, or turn a blind eye to red flags or gut-twisters. Instead, you communicate and collaborate with comfort, compatibility, and undeniable chemistry. If and when you experience this kind of interaction, you are on to something really special.

Dating Trait #3: He wants the real you

So often, women feel the need to sacrifice some part of themselves to make a relationship work. In the right relationship, there’s no need. You don’t have to hide, tone down, or apologize for any aspect of you or your fabulous life. With the right partner, you’re not only able to be yourself, but you’re better able to be the best version of your most authentic self — no compromises needed
Dating Trait #4: He’s trustworthy
“A relationship without trust is doomed from the start.”

A relationship without trust is doomed from the start. But a relationship with abundant trust? A fabulous foundation for real and lasting love! Built over time, trust is based on the simple belief system that your partner has your best interests at heart and will never intentionally hurt you (and vice versa). If and when you discover that Mr. Next is 100 percent trustworthy, you’ll have no trouble giving your heart to him. In return, he’ll most likely give you his heart and pave the way for a lasting, loving relationship to unfold.

Dating Trait #5: He enriches your life

In the wrong relationship, your partner tears you to emotional shreds, brings you down, and in general drains your energy. In the right relationship, he enriches your life, inspires you to be your best self, and brings a sense of peace and possibility to you. You’ll know Mr. Next is enriching your life if and when he encourages and supports you professionally, personally, and spiritually. And when he does, he may just be Mr. Right!
Does your Mr. Next possess all five qualities? If so, congratulations! You have done your homework, chosen wisely, and are now well positioned for relationship success.
If not, pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and get back into the dating pool with a clearer understanding of who you want to date. Remember, finding your life partner isn’t always easy, but by being clear, honoring yourself, and acting accordingly, you’ll cut down on wasted time with Mr. Wrong and Mr. Next, and ultimately make room for Mr. Right.
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WoW!!!!! I m so exciting that I have an english blog now, I can write down everything whatever I want, post any photo what do i think it is interest and share all of my feeling, stories to all of my friends 

First I would like to thanks for Michael and his website manger, Mr.Michael is the one who was introduced this website to me and made it for me  um….such a nice guy, right? sure I believe he is

however, more information of Wendy will coming soon………….dont walk away!

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